
I was sketching and looking at my high school yearbook in preparation for a series of paintings I’m starting. I was surprised by the low expectations so many of the girls in the yearbook had for themselves compared to today’s young women. I started counting how many “hoped to eventually” to become beauticians, secretaries and airline hostesses (flight attendants). Even my high school best friend Tina’s yearbook entry said she aimed to be a beautician (not to denigrate those important jobs, but there are so many more options for women now.) Maybe it was the elaborate, sculptural hairstyles back then that made so many of us want to be hairstylists?
When I read the tender, poetic inscription Tina wrote in my annual, I decided to try to find her again. We’d lost touch with when I moved away a year after high school and have unsuccessfully searched for her for years. Today I found her 86-year-0ld father, just by typing his last name and the city where we lived into the people finder on YellowPages.com! He promised to give her my phone number and then filled me in on her life over the many decades since we last were together.

When I filled out the form for my blurb I was trying to be funny: “Hopes to marry a millionaire…especially liked the people, weekends, and vacations.” But there was some truth in it too. I was so done with high school and wasn’t looking forward to having to grow up and get a job, either.
OK, so maybe I was procrastinating and avoiding the nice blank canvas waiting for me… but, (not counting the girls who said they just wanted to be happy, or didn’t mention their goals at all), here is my tally of career goals for San Diego’s Crawford High class of ’66 (I put the odd outliers in red):
- Teacher: 67 (90% said elementary teacher)
- Graduate from college: 55 (and then get married: 30)
- Secretary: 51
- Airline hostess: 33
- Beautician: 23
- Nurse 21
- Housewife: 20
- Dental/medical assistant: 19
- Commercial artist: 14
- Social worker: 11
- Psychologist or Psychoanalyst: 11
- Travel the world: 11
- Interior Decorator: 9
- Dress designer: 8
- Model: 6
- Doctor: 6 (mostly pediatricians)
- Scientist, mathematician, engineer: 3
- Diplomat, linguist: 2
- Bullfighter: 2
- FBI/Secret Agent: 2
- Probation officer: 2
- Owner of Village of Pancake House: 1
- Mortician: 1
- Police woman: 1
- Artist: 1 (and she is did it: Deborah Butterfield is famous for her sculptures of horses)

















